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what are the warning signs?

Warning signs of an abused child can be very subtle and it may be difficult to engage in a dialogue with youth about the abusive situations they are facing.

Some typical warning signs are visible injuries such as constant fractures, welts, and or bruises, or if you frequently notice questionable wounds. Other signs to look for are: sleeplessness, irrational fears, depression, anxiety, and change in weight, nightmares, anger, low self-esteem, and privacy issues. The signs do not necessarily mean a child is being abused, however if you notice multiple symptoms for an extended period of time, it is better to be safe than sorry and talk the youth you are concerned about.

Talk to the youth you are concerned about. They may be in an abusive situation that requires help. The following is a list of examples of questions to ask and/or behaviors to look out for.

1. Are they afraid or too depressed to concentrate in school, make or keep friends?
2. Does the abusive behavior they’ve experienced make them fear physical closeness?
3. Do they have an unusual interest in sexual things because of abuse?
4. Is the abuser in their life often irritated and angry with them for no apparent reason?
5. Does the abuser refuse to discuss the problem, making it impossible to resolve?
6. Does the abuser’s behavior embarrass them in front of friends and family?
7. Does the abuser’s personality change when he or she drinks or does drugs?
8. Does the abuser find it impossible to apologize or admit they are wrong?
9. Do they always blame their behavior on your youth?
10. Does the abuser try to take advantage of them sexually?
11. Are they afraid of the abuser?
12. Do they feel inferior to the abuser?
13. Do they keep the abuse secret out of fear?